Why we are not happy?
We know that money alone can’t buy happiness, but some part of us still believes that we’d feel better if we were rich.Yet when we really look at wealthy people, we must wonder if they are any happier than the average person.
So think about this:
why do rich people still experience unhappiness?
Why do successful people still experience unhappiness?
The answer is:
Money and success do not automatically create happiness!
Happiness is a Choice
Happiness is a choice that you must make. If you allow yourself to be happy, and you will become happy.
This is why we have Enjoy iMoney Rule 1: Budget for happiness.
How to budget for happiness
Budgets are not about spending as little as possible. Preferably none.
“Budget for happiness” means we should make a budget for happiness, for meaningful things, for improving ourselves.
Make a budget for happiness is very easy.
First: Create your spending categories for happiness.
List your spending categories and categorize your categories. For example you can categorize you categories with this:
Basic expense: This is include all of your basic needs, like food, house rend, bills, fixed debt, etc.
Personal skills:The most important categories, just like books, personal training.
That classic quote from John Rohn says “Don’t wish life was easier, wish you were better”. Spending in yourself is one of the best investments. Read, explore, research, train, expand your skills, learn another language or another sport.
Happiness: The things can make you happy, a trip, spend some month on your family, your friends, buy some things for yourself.
Second: Give stars to every category
Grade your categories with Stars, the number of star means the amount of happiness, maybe you can rate your categories like this:
Basic Needs: 0 star
Personal skills: 2,3 stars
Happiness: 1,2,3 stars
Remember: This is your happiness ,only you can confirm the stars for your categories.
Third: Assign money for the categories
First, you need assign enough money for your basic needs, then assign money for your personal skills and happiness.
When you have more money available try to assign them to the high rating categories.
Remember: Don’t reduce the money on your skills even you are experiencing challenges or lack in your life right now.